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Old April-21st-2005, 08:54 PM   #1
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A family needs your help

A friend of mine at my old HS is need of your help.


This is from an e-mail I recieved today:

As you may have heard, Golden West Choir Director Paul Raheb's 3-yr old daughter recently underwent surgery for a brain tumor. It is cancerous and they were only able to take out 80% because the rest is wrapped around her brain stem. The family and GW are raising funds for medical costs, and we would like to help. So, we have decided to make our annual Fear Factor competition at Choral Department Wake-A-Thon this weekend a fundraiser for the Rahebs. We are asking students to bring cash and drop it in the big oversized Mt. Dew bottle bank in our office.

[My edit:The money will be donated to the Madison Raheb Fund at the Bank of the Sierras.]

John M Sorber

El Diamante High School Choral Teacher

TKMEA Choral Representative and Secretary

5100 W. Whitendale Ave.

Visalia, CA 93277

(559) 735-3562 Ext. 1126

jsorber@visalia.k12.ca.us

sorbers@sbcglobal.net


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Please help, if you can.


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Old April-21st-2005, 08:56 PM   #2
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Reading this sent chills up my spine. I will talk to my wife and see if we can contribute. I can only imagine...
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Old April-21st-2005, 10:25 PM   #3
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Reading this sent chills up my spine. I will talk to my wife and see if we can contribute. I can only imagine...
Only you would fully understand.


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Old April-21st-2005, 10:27 PM   #4
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First my friend was shot and his wife is in jail....and now another friend's young daughter is near death.




I just can't take any more.
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Old April-21st-2005, 11:29 PM   #5
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Goodz, hang in there brother. It's a harsh world.


Your post is truly disturbing. A lady where I work has a 5 year old son who just had a tumor removed from his brain.


Mr. Pootz is 5. Really makes you take stock.


Brother Goodz, be strong, my friend. Your friend may need you to lean on.
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Old April-22nd-2005, 12:01 AM   #6
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Thank you, Scott.


I truly appreciate your humanity....you're a good friend.




I just remember how happy Paul and his wife were when Madison was born...they had tried for so long.


I tell you, this just tears my heart out.

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Old April-22nd-2005, 01:55 AM   #7
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I've been thinking a lot about this tonight. It immediately called back to mind that night this winter when we took Anna to the emergency room for the second time, and it became clear she was going to have to have brain surgery. I was so incredibly scared...I remember crying my eyes out in the waiting room at the hospital, imagining that everything that was happening was just some bad dream and that somehow things could go back to normal if I just wished it to be that way. I remember thinking that I would have done anything to swap places with my daughter. One of the hardest things for me was how young Anna was; I kept thinking that, if she died, she would never know what a wonderful person she was. At night, I couldn't sleep, and I'd watch her in the hospital crib, with tubes and wires all running out of her body, thinking that she didn't even know or understand what was happening, or why. I didn't sleep for three nights; I just stayed up watching her breathe, watching the heart monitor and when I got too tired, walking the halls of the pediatric ward. Since the surgery, how many times have I thought how incredibly lucky we were; lucky that her nurses and doctors were so competent, lucky that the surgeon did such a good job, lucky that her lesion was in a place that could be operated on, lucky that we had caught it in time. There isn't a night that goes by that I don't check on her before going to bed, and thank God that she's still alive. The two weeks we spent in the hospital seem like some strange dream now, and I might think it was just a dream if not for the long scar on the left side of her head.

Hearing about this tonight has brought all these emotions back for me, and though I can't imagine how scared Madison's parents must be right now, I think I know a little about the thoughts that must be running through their head. Without knowing a single thing about them, I know that they'd do anything to help their daughter get better. I know that when my Anna was in the hospital, the one thing I kept wondering was, "Are we doing the right thing? Is she getting the best care possible? Are we making the right decisions?" I had to know that, no matter what happened, that at the least I could feel comfortable knowing that I had done everything I could. That brought me a kind of comfort, to know at the very least that we were doing the right things, and to trust the rest to God.

This type of health care gets very expensive very quickly, and no matter what happens, it is so important that Madison get the very best health care possible. We're going to be making a contribution to the fund, and I would urge anyone else reading this thread who is in a position to do likewise to please give it their full consideration. Just imagine what it must be like for Madison's parents right now. They can use all the support they can get.
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Old April-22nd-2005, 01:58 AM   #8
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One of the things I associate with that time in the hospital is the music of Randy Weston. It just so happened that the week all this came about I had received the Mosaic Select in the mail...so when I needed something to do during the hours of Anna's surgery, I listened to that music. The first disc seemed so appropriate, with the tunes about his children, such as "Little Niles." I'll be playing that this week again, hoping that it sends some good vibes across the continent to Madison and her family.
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Old April-22nd-2005, 11:51 AM   #9
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Thanks, Crawjo.


I knew it was the right thing to do when I brought this to you guys and gals.


I made my donation this morning. The choral director [John Sorber] was there with his students and as I dropped the bills into the jar they applauded me. I was surprised, I mean, I have done nothing.

I tried to hold back, but I began to tear up. The kids were just great about it. I don't know why I'm telling you this other than to let you know how many lives this little girl has touched.

Another friend of mine who works at my HS is Paul's neighbor. He told me how vibrant and happy Madison was and what joy she is to her parents. I don't know if any of you believe in miracles, but I'm asking you to please believe in one now. Pray for the Rahebs....it may be their only hope. It's that bad.











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Old April-23rd-2005, 03:33 PM   #10
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The HS I used to work at hosted a carnival and bake sale with kids washing cars for donations today. A huge turn out and media coverage.


I chatted with Paul about school stuff and things unrelated....he shows a brave face, that man.


Madison was there, too.



It was an awesome experience....such an outpouring of love and support.

Donations to a support fund for Madison can be made at Bank of the Sierra branches in Visalia. Checks can be made payable to Madison Raheb under the account number 0712539930.


In today's paper:

Tragedy spurs response

Visalia students help teacher whose daughter is battling a brain tumor.

By Tim Bragg / The Fresno Bee

(Updated Friday, April 22, 2005, 10:32 AM)


VISALIA — Golden West High School choral students hope they can help a teacher whose daughter is battling a brain tumor by holding two fundraising events Saturday.


Students of Paul Raheb, who has taught the choir classes at Golden West for the past seven years, will hold a car wash, bake sale and yard sale Saturday at the high school campus. Later in the evening, they've planned a screening of the movie "The Incredibles" in the school's gym.

"A lot of us were in tears when we heard about it, it's such a tragedy," said Samantha Allender, an 18-year-old senior and choir member.

Paul and Melanie Raheb became concerned about their daughter, 2-year-old Madison, when she began having trouble with motor skills such as walking. They also noticed she had a lazy eye and an unusual bend in her neck.

The Rahebs took Madison to University of California, Los Angeles Medical Center earlier this month, where doctors conducted a scan of her brain and discovered a tumor between the size of a golf ball and tennis ball on her brain stem.

Doctors called the family back to the hospital immediately to prepare Madison for surgery.

"It was hard because we never thought of her as being sick," said Paul Raheb.

Doctors were able to remove 80% of the tumor during the surgery, but the other 20% is entwined in Madison's brain stem, Raheb said. A biopsy showed the tumor was an aggressive form of cancer that has a poor recovery rate.

Raheb said the family is hopeful, but he acknowledges the prognosis for complete recovery is probably 50-50. The family will meet with doctors Tuesday to find out the details of Madison's treatment, which most likely will be chemotherapy. "We weren't expecting something of this magnitude," Raheb said.

For now, Madison is doing what most 2-year-olds do, playing with her little brother, 5-month-old Elijah, and her toys.

"She felt the scar on the back of her neck for the first time the other day," said Melanie Raheb.

Insurance will pay for most of Madison's health care costs, but organizers of Saturday's event hope their efforts will pay for things not covered, such as travel, said Becky Ainley, a choir parent booster.




Melanie Raheb plays with her 2-year-old daughter, Madison, on Thursday in their Visalia home. Doctors at University of California, Los Angeles Medical Center earlier this month conducted a scan of Madison's brain and discovered a tumor on her brain stem.
Christian Parley / The Fresno Bee
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Old April-24th-2005, 02:07 PM   #11
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My prayers go out to Madison and her family. I pray for a miracle in her life and in her body.

I realize that our children are gifts, and we have been blessed with our two. They are healthy and strong and creative.

May this little girl be a blessing to all who come across her for decades to come.
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