Old June-23rd-2004, 11:24 AM   #1
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Mattie Stepanek


This kid was amazing.
Next time your feeling sorry for yourself, remember Mattie. Next time you think you're having a bad day, remember Mattie.
Here was a kid who had been facing death his whole life, watching three siblings die before him from the same disease that was destined to take him.
Through it all he remained nothing but positive and clear-headed, writing his poetry and spreading his message of hope.
Sure, his story has been Oprah-ized. Sure, he had been known to cavort with bad pop stars. Maybe he was no Yeats. It doesn't matter.
This was a young boy who displayed intelligence way beyond his years while maintaining an incredibly upbeat attitude for someone faced with such adversity. Pardon me for getting sappy, but he really was amazing and I am sad to see him go.
R.I.P. Mattie.

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Poet Mattie Stepanek inspired others
'Heartsongs' author is dead at age 13
By Patricia Meisol
Sun Staff
Originally published June 23, 2004
Mattie Stepanek, the 13-year-old Maryland boy whose poetry and message of peace captured the hearts of millions, died yesterday at a Washington hospital from complications due to a rare form of muscular dystrophy.

He began writing poetry at age 3, partly as salve for his grief over a brother's death from the same disease. In 2001, his slim book of poetry, Heartsongs, was published to fulfill the dream of an ailing child and became an international best seller.

The bright-eyed boy, whose big, dimpled smile and square glasses made Oprah Winfrey cry when he wheeled his electric chair onto her television show in October 2001, used his rise to fame to spread a message of hope.

His personal philosophy, "remember to play after every storm," developed from an early age, and stood him through several near-fatal episodes of his disease. In summer 2001, doctors at Children's Hospital in Washington warned that even a laugh or cough could cause his damaged windpipe to collapse, leading to death by suffocation. They could find no explanation for his improvement several months later.

And few could have predicted, either, that Mattie's book of poetry, published that summer by a small Virginia publisher of children's books -- to fulfill his last wish -- would shortly rise to the top of The New York Times best-seller list.

"You always have to remember to celebrate," he wrote, "because that's what charges you up to get through another life storm."

The Rockville boy was born in 1990 and wasn't expected to live more than 24 hours. He attended public school through fourth grade, despite being forced to lug an oxygen canister behind him, and when his illness worsened, he was home-schooled by his mother, Jeni Stepanek, 44, a doctoral candidate at the University of Maryland. He wrote poetry and filled notebooks with his thoughts regularly.

While in school, he earned a black belt in martial arts, climbed trees and served as playground mediator. He lost three siblings to mitochondrial myopathy, a rare form of muscular dystrophy, which weakens the body's major functions and makes it difficult to breathe.

The young boy's attitude despite his hardships led to friendships with many national figures, including poet Maya Angelou and former President Jimmy Carter, who wrote the introduction to Mattie's next book of poetry and who regularly spoke with him. Mattie published five collections of poems.

Beginning in 2002, he toured the country as national spokesman for the Muscular Dystrophy Association, which mourned him yesterday.

"Mattie was something special, something very special," said MDA national chairman Jerry Lewis. "His example made people want to reach for the best within themselves. It was easy to forget how sick he was because his megawatt personality just made you want to smile."

In his poetry, Mattie saw his life after death as very similar to his life on earth. "I want to be a child in Heaven," he wrote, "I want to be a hero in heaven, and a peacemaker, just like my goal on earth."

He leaves his mother, who has the adult-onset form of muscular dystrophy, his service dog Micah and friends.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 12:47 PM   #2
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That's sad. I know a lot of booksellers and publishing types who hated the books the kid wrote both because they came off to hard-bitten cynics as treacly and because the kid sold so many of them. I mean millions of copies (cheers to Oprah). But at the end of the day, the kid wasn't a publishing phenomenon or a pop culture joke, he was a kid, and a sick kid. Goodbye, little Stepanek. Your time wasn't long here but you did good.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 01:15 PM   #3
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Incredible the spread of MD in that kid's family. Does anyone know if that's typical?

We never know how long we're here, and those who do something worthwhile with their lives while they're above ground should be noted.

RIP Mattie.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 01:27 PM   #4
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I know a lot of booksellers and publishing types who hated the books the kid wrote both because they came off to hard-bitten cynics as treacly and because the kid sold so many of them.
And I'm about f**king done with "hard-bitten cynics," while you mention it. There are enough of them already. No more need apply. It's a shame that real life experiences and stories of perseverance by children facing overwhelming adversity should get in the way of some f**king ass puppet's goddamn bottom line or intellectual superiority.

A good place for these cynics would be on the receiving end of a hard punch to the face.

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Old June-23rd-2004, 02:21 PM   #5
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Mattie did amazing things despite the crappy hand he was dealt.

R.I.P. Mattie.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 02:21 PM   #6
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Mattie did more in his short life than I have done in my much longer one. Sweet, sincere kid. Gotta love that. There is so little love in the world that it's right that we recognize this kid's contribution.
RIP Mattie.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 04:10 PM   #7
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I saw a portion of an earlier Larry King Live show last night before turning in, and there was the ever-positive, upbeat Mattie and his Mom.

He was truly an inspirational person. Sad that he's gone at such a young age.

You won't be forgotten, Mattie.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 05:51 PM   #8
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Merchandising is merchandising. If you need a sick little kid to make you appreciate life, you're a sick big kid. I am not only unmoved, I'm just a bit queasy about the whole phenomenon.

As hard-bitten as they come...
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Old June-23rd-2004, 09:55 PM   #9
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Merchandising is merchandising. If you need a sick little kid to make you appreciate life, you're a sick big kid. I am not only unmoved, I'm just a bit queasy about the whole phenomenon.

As hard-bitten as they come...
Wow, Doc. Chewin' on a rather large slice of cynical pie today, eh?
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Old June-23rd-2004, 09:57 PM   #10
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That's my position. Take it or leave it.
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Old June-23rd-2004, 10:29 PM   #11
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That's my position. Take it or leave it.
I don't know, Dr Dave. With so many deliberately manipulative movies, books and situations around, tweakin' the collective tearducts, Mattie struck me as being totally genuine. Sure, part of what we feel is pity, which is a negative, but he was such a sweet little kid that only a cynical fart would hold his inevitable death against him, as if he had deliberately died to make us feel sorry for him. I do agree that the reason we know about him at all is that his story was Larry Kinged, Oprah-Winfreed, but still he was a positive kid and sweet.
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I don't disagree, Patricia. Except I no longer believe in the "genuine."
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I don't disagree, Patricia. Except I no longer believe in the "genuine."

After I posted that, I thought the same thing. I guess we're all playing our parts. Even though it probably wasn't conscious, Mattie was, undestandably, responding to all the attention paid to him. Had he been a healthy little boy who wrote poetry, he wouldn't have gotten any attention, or face time on major network shows. For that, I guess we can blame him, but only gently.

Compared to those who deliberately manipulate our emotions for some indefinable personal gain, and then mock us when we respond in kind, he was as genuine as we seem to produce these days.

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Sorry, but I don't feel that we can blame Mattie for much of anything. Of course, he was caught up in the media frenzy. How could he have avoided it?

Mattie was "genuine" as far as I'm concerned.
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I seem to have nominated myself as Ogre of the Day with this thread. Let me clarify: My own discomfort with the Mattie phenomenon should not be taken as a slam against anyone who finds his story uplifting. Just because I’m not taken with his story doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be. There are many phenomena in the big wide word that I don’t like that most other people do, and vice-versa.
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I seem to have nominated myself as Ogre of the Day with this thread. Let me clarify: My own discomfort with the Mattie phenomenon should not be taken as a slam against anyone who finds his story uplifting. Just because I’m not taken with his story doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be. There are many phenomena in the big wide word that I don’t like that most other people do, and vice-versa.

Dr Dave, you are the last person in the world I would call Ogre of the Day. I too was wary of what I suspected was the manipulation of this child, as I am by anyone who elicits pity from me, on television, because of some unfortunate thing beyond their control. However, there are far worse things, like the Jessica Lynch story, that deserve a closer look when it comes to manipulating the emotions of the general public. I think Mattie was just a feel-good story. In a cesspool of choreographed tear-jerking stories, his was quite touching and so, seemed to be rare in a cynical world. Call me an old softie.
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