Go Back   Jazzcorner's Speakeasy > THE ALLEY
Connect with Facebook

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old January-18th-2005, 09:07 AM   #1
crawjo
Be Afraid
 
crawjo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 11,469
Need a little help

Well, I'm typing this from the hospital, where my 15-month-old daughter is now staying. We first had to bring her in last week when she started having some small seizures. They let us out on Friday. We had to bring her back in on Monday, after she lost some motor control on her right side. It turns out she has a lesion on her brain, which has bled three times, and has to be removed. She has surgery scheduled for Friday, and will need to remain in the hospital for at least another week in order to recuperate. The lesion is from a hereditary condition which she got from me.

I've had health problems in the past, but it's 1,000 times worse when it's your kid, and not you. She's a strong kid, and I'm hopeful that she will get through this okay, but this came on very suddenly, a complete surprise, and both my wife and I are reeling.

You guys and gals are important to me, so I'm asking those of you who are so inclined to please keep her in your prayers. If you are not the praying sort, please play some hopeful music in her honor: despite her young age, she's actually a big jazz fan, and actually likes most of the music I listen to, more than anyone else in my life. In particular, Miles Davis is very soothing music for her.

Thanks, and I will post again when I get the opportunity to give updates on how she is doing.
crawjo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:12 AM   #2
mke
skirting the issue
 
mke's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Brussels, Belgium
Posts: 4,328
Definitely wishing your daughter all the best.
mke is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:15 AM   #3
Douglas
hocus pocus rationalizer
 
Douglas's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: une estafette
Posts: 2,537
I'm rooting for your little girl, Crawjo.

All the best for you and your wife as well.
Douglas is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:16 AM   #4
Steve Reynolds
swing high swing higher
 
Steve Reynolds's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 5,181
man o man

I pray

I will pray for your little girl

god speed, David
Steve Reynolds is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:20 AM   #5
Sergio Zamora
Registered Loser
 
Sergio Zamora's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: The Altered State Of Drugafornia
Posts: 7,663
Your family is in my thoughts, Crawjo. I know your little girl will be alright.
Sergio Zamora is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:22 AM   #6
Enforcer
Most Loved JC User 2009®
 
Enforcer's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2003
Posts: 39,755
crawjo,

Your little girl is in my thoughts, as are you and your wife, and I wish her a speedy recovery.

Larry
Enforcer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:27 AM   #7
Richardo Caerleoni
"Long way from home"
 
Richardo Caerleoni's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
Posts: 1,188
Crawjo...Hey...what to say...just very best wishes from us to you ALL...really lost for words for once...we are not the "praying kind", so "Miles - "You're My Everything" now playing...seems appropriate...will work thro the book...

Besta - Richard & Anna...keep in touch?
Richardo Caerleoni is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:30 AM   #8
Uli
poor folk's child
 
Uli's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Chicago
Posts: 12,179
Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Uli is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:33 AM   #9
Coda
Registered User
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 1,365
I too want to chime in and offer my best wishes and prayers to your daughter and your family. This has to be one of the most difficult times to live through. God Bless.
Coda is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:41 AM   #10
Jason Bivins
Registered User
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Durham, NC
Posts: 2,903
So very sorry to hear this, Crawjo. You guys are definitely in my thoughts.
Jason Bivins is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:45 AM   #11
Dennis Gonzalez
Peace and Light!
 
Dennis Gonzalez's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Dallas, TX
Posts: 6,130
I send my love, and my strongest healing music, to your little dear one, and strength and courage and comfort to you and your wife.
Dennis Gonzalez is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:49 AM   #12
Chris D
Six decades
 
Chris D's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Capital City
Posts: 12,801
All good wishes and prayers coming you daughter's way, crawjo. Stay strong.
Chris D is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:49 AM   #13
bostontricky
Unfocused User
 
bostontricky's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Somerville, MA
Posts: 4,841
David, you're all in our thoughts here, with two little Trickettes running around here I can only imagine what you're going through.
bostontricky is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 09:57 AM   #14
Dr Dave
User
 
Dr Dave's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Below the line
Posts: 9,884
This is terrible news. My heart goes out to you and your daughter.

In a way, because you know you may have passed on a hereditary condition, you are probably lucky, because I'll bet you brought the child in for care immediately. Parents of small children don't always recognize symptoms, and don't always bring the child in soon enough.

I am going to put on "ESP" and try to get some extra-sensory perception going. Please let her get through this O.K. and have a speedy and painless recovery...
Dr Dave is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 10:13 AM   #15
Jazzzoline
Isn't life WONDERFUL !
 
Jazzzoline's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Québec, Canada
Posts: 3,813
This is sad news. I wish she comes back to health very soon. Courage to you and your wife.
__________________
All or nothing at all
Jazzzoline is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 10:33 AM   #16
chuckyd4
My early work was better
 
chuckyd4's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: East Central ATL, represent
Posts: 1,138
Hey David... I am of the praying type, so you and yours will most definitely be on my mind as you go through this time. One of those situations where I imagine it's going to take time and a lot of faith to get through.

I'm pretty sure you have my e-mail if you need to let your thoughts out.
chuckyd4 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 10:38 AM   #17
Jesse
Registered User
 
Jesse's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: mpls/mn
Posts: 6,982
David:
I am the father of 2 sons, have suffered with them through a few unplanned hospital visits. I hold your daughter in my morning meditation, the medicine buddha mantra. Please send her name along if you're comfortable with that. Provide updates as you see fit, & look after your own self-very important!

Best
Jesse
Jesse is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 10:42 AM   #18
mjb
and in the end ...
 
mjb's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Toronto
Posts: 4,316
Every drop of positive energy in me is now directed to your daughter.

I am searching for Albert Ayler's "Music is the Healing Force of the Universe" immediately.

Then it is Miles all the time.

mjb is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:06 AM   #19
jazzy mary
JM is Back!
 
jazzy mary's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Brooklyn, NY
Posts: 4,529
crawjo, I echo all the sentiments above. Please let us know how things are going. We all care very much!
jazzy mary is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:15 AM   #20
clinthopson
The mouldiest of all figs
 
clinthopson's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Tustin, CA
Posts: 11,249
crawj, my heart goes out to you. Those little ones are precious.
__________________
Stand clear of the doors
clinthopson is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:22 AM   #21
Noj
Jon
 
Noj's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Beautiful Downtown Burbank
Posts: 6,072
I hope for a speedy recovery for your little girl, crawjo.
Noj is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:23 AM   #22
Scott Dolan
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
David, you know where I stand.


Please keep us updated. And stay in touch.
  Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:39 AM   #23
Tom Storer
Registered User
 
Tom Storer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Paris, France
Posts: 6,161
All the best luck to your daughter and her parents, crawjo. Healing vibrations are beaming her way from Paris. Hang in there.
Tom Storer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:51 AM   #24
walto
Plus ça change...
 
walto's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Boston area
Posts: 16,919
Hope all goes well for your little one, Crawjo. It indeed does suck when your child is sick.
walto is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 11:53 AM   #25
Slurpy
No guts, no glory!
 
Slurpy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 2,006
Sorry to hear about your daughter, Craw. I wish her a speedy recovery! Hang in there man.
Slurpy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 12:19 PM   #26
jaka
excuse my french
 
jaka's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Limours, France
Posts: 3,188
Sorry to hear this, Crawjo.
My warmest thoughts to you and your wife.
I send all available positive vibrations to your daughter and hope for her quick recovery.
jaka is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 12:24 PM   #27
steve(thelil)
Registered User
 
steve(thelil)'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: The big apple - North of the Core
Posts: 5,440
Prayers and wishes and love are with you and yours all the way. Stay strong. Take care.
steve(thelil) is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 12:24 PM   #28
John L
Substance User
 
John L's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Somewhere in Kazakhstan
Posts: 1,792
I feel for you, Crawjo. When my son was 1 year old, we had a major scare too. I know how it feels. I wish you, your daughter, and your family all the best.


John
John L is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 12:30 PM   #29
tippy
colors outside the lines
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 12,288
Crawjo, I'm saddened to hear of your daughter's illness. It must be terrible having to watch your precious little one go through that, but littles ones are tough aren't they and heal more quickly and easily than old timers. So here's to her speedy recovery. Take care, crawjo. We are thinking about you.
tippy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old January-18th-2005, 12:56 PM   #30
Rob C
Kills all threads!
 
Rob C's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Chicago
Posts: 2,217
Sorry to hear about this, crawjo--good luck with the treatments. I hope your daughter is well very soon.
__________________
"The challenge of creative music has never been more important than in periods of profound unrest and realignment."--Anthony Braxton
Rob C is online now   Reply With Quote
Reply

Lower Navigation
Go Back   Jazzcorner's Speakeasy > THE ALLEY

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:19 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.2
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
All material copyright 2009 jazzcorner.com